TALKING

Talking is an act of communication between two personalities. It involves the voice because if a person

moves his lips in different directions without sound, it makes no sense to us; so we have to voice out when we want to speak. I realized in life that what we hear has more effect on us that any other senses that we have because it is the first gateway to our hearts. In fact, we easily believe what we hear than what we see. People make excuses for what they see, even if you want to prove something to them by showing them to see that you are right in your way, they might not believe you, they might think it is a planned game. But when someone comes to tell us things that are not nice " this girl said you are a bad or stupid person or this guy said you are a dummy or a jerk" or anything that does not sound nice, we are quick to react even if the statement is true or not. That is how what we say affect people. My ex never liked me touching the wall, so one day,
I mistakenly touched it and an argument erupted. He said " do not touch the wall". I said " it was a mistake, sorry about that". He said " I have already told you before not to touch it, how many times will I tell you? My landlady does not like the wall being dirty, every time I have to clean it, I don't know why you like to behave like a baby..."and it continued on and on; all from what? Touching the wall.

PRIDE AND ANGER IN TALKING

Our mouth moods and attitudes are connected. Pride is the greatest deceptive attitude and it can be shown by the way we talk. Anytime we interrupt people when talking just because we think what we will say is better, it is pride. We have a hard time saying we are sorry when we are wrong, that is pride. Proud people always defend themselves and make excuses for their actions instead of accepting their wrongs and
apologizing for them. Our anger takes the best part of us when we do not know that the words we utter might hurt other people and we might end up regretting later. Statistics show that people who get angry easily get old quickly than normal. It is also said that it is not good for the health as some hormones are secreted that makes the body develop some problems. But that is not enough reason why we should not be easily angry. We should be slow to anger because we have self-control which stems out from having the spirit of God in us.