These days, men always say it is hard to find a Christian girl to
date or marry. The girls
also
say the same thing "husbands are scarce". And I asked myself; “have
they taken the place of fuel?" I was having an interaction with some
ladies and I asked them the type of men they want to marry. They all had
different views. Some said they want God fearing guys, some said they want
rich, handsome and God fearing. Others said tall, six-packs and smart guys. I
asked some guys what they think about Christian girls. They said, they are hard
to find, and even the ones you will see around are all fake and desperate.
But I hear couples say how they met their partners through God's
revelations, dreams or pastor's confirmation or through church activities. The
bible says he that finds a wife, finds a good thing and obtains favor from God.
It means that your partner is not someone you see anywhere or that easily.
Nobody is saying it will be hard before you find her or see him, but you will
have to look beyond the distractions and noises out there for you to listen to
that one voice that is meant for you, that is the hard part. But with God, all
things are possible.
I always believed that everybody that goes
to church is an eligible Bachelor and Spinster. So the options are many and
easy to choose. How can we have so many men going to church and yet the women
complain that husbands are scarce? Or how can we have many women going to
church and yet
