God has designed them that way for the purpose of leadership and protection. There are things women need to know about men so that they will relax in their marriages or relationships when they see some of these things happen.
-Men are more mechanically minded than women and they like to tear things apart to see how they work. They are inquisitive and want to know how things work. So instead of wanting to have time for a woman, he is interested in providing and fixing things and is also work-oriented.
-A man is less sensitive
to the communication clues of a woman or anybody. He does not listen. He is a
thinker. Some times when you are talking, he is thinking. So don't get angry
when your man does not remember a story you told him 20 times.
-Men tend to avoid eye
contact. Women tend to fix their eyes more on who they are talking with. But
when a man wants to catch a woman, the eye contact is there.
-Men show less warmth
and emotions. Unlike a woman who is emotionally demanding.
-Men are more
competitive and more authoritative than women because they are conquest
oriented.
-Men tend to favor the
less side of the brain; that is the language logic. The man tries to reason
everything; so he is not easily deceived. But the woman is a feeler. That is
why two heads are better than one. The man cannot rule alone, the woman should
help because she is the helper.
You should pick your
words around men. There is what you want to say and what to say. People have
lost their husbands through that.
-Men tend to take more risk
and chances than women. That is why a man can carry all his money and gamble
even if he might lose. The reason why we need the spirit of God is, so that we
do not walk according to the flesh. When a man who is not in the spirit wants
to make a statement, he will take steps that will destroy him. A God-man will
take the right risk
-A man is more prone to
externalize his emotions like hitting the wall. Men react more violently than
women when he feels like he is being taken advantaged of and disrespected. In
such cases, you have stepped on something that makes him a man. So if he does
not want to beat his woman, he hits the wall or something else.
- A man tends to work
harder under stress, because when he is tensed up, there must be a channel to
release that stress. And he cannot afford to fail.
-A man tends to live, to
work and play. They cannot play effectively until they have worked for some
time. A man needs to work. What is the idea of work? A man needs to play. What
is his idea of play? If he wants to play snooker, where will he play it?
-Men tend not to seek
for help. They like to solve problems on their own.
There are so many things
your man could do that you do not like. Since it is natural of him to exert
authority, showing the same authority to him will not work; because men do not
joke with respect. But a soft and tender way of talking and expressing your
point of views to him is a subtle way to get to his heart. A good man will not
resist that.
So sometimes I wonder if
a man has the time to play; because even when he plays the snooker or plays
with his wife, he is still thinking. But that is the difference between the
natural man and the God-man; even God had time to rest. So if you are not a
God-man, you will never have time to rest all your life. Because the truth of
it all is that no matter how much you struggle as a man, it is God that
prospers. Learn to rest in God because you need Him in your daily life.
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