TO THE MEN

Hello Guys! You are wonderfully and fearfully made and you are so loved by God that he made you the

stronger sex. For those of you that are married, He has made you the head of the home. Which such position comes so much responsibilities. The responsibility is not to use the position and strength to oppress the women who are the weaker sex but to support them and serve as an anchor to them. You are to use the authority and wisdom to help her achieve her dreams and not to shatter it. The height a woman will attain in life depends on the type of authority backing her.


But if we look at the other way...The Bible says that "he that finds a wife, finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord". The Bible also says "two heads are better than one". There is an adage that says "behind every successful man is a woman". From these statements, we can see that the type of woman u marry or u want to be in relationship with matters a lot. You should look for a woman that is virtuous and can build a home, but for you to get that woman, you have to work on yourself to the best man any woman will want to have. Then you can get the best from every woman that wants to have you. What you are is also what you attract. No responsible and God-fearing woman will want to go for a man that is not responsible. We all want the best in life. We should work towards it.

Do not expect from someone what you cannot give. If you are not respectful, do not expect respect from your partner. If you are stingy, do not expect your partner to be generous to you. Also, if you are not spiritually inclined, do not expect your partner to be spiritually strong because when the head goes down, the body shuts down too. God is your glory and you are the Glory of the woman. If you cannot trust God to lead you in all you do, you cannot lead the woman and the family, in the right path.
God bless you as you make the right decision today.