I love weddings! Weddings are like Christmas; Lots of anxiety,
preparations, invitations, cry, laughter, spending, family bonding and others.
In my country, wedding is one of the
most extravagant ways to
spend money. It is an occasion where even the poor do not have to bother about
eating because the food cooked could feed a whole community. Although there are
different classes of weddings based on what you can afford, those that could
afford all the luxury and make it strictly my invitation and those that can
afford it on a small scale.
Every woman has the right to feel like the
queen of the world on her D-Day sauntering with an unparalleled vibrancy and
serenity at the same time. It is usually said that the bride is the happiest
and most nervous of all. She is the center of the day because everyone wants to
see the wedding dress she will wear; not like the groom is not important
though. In fact people come to weddings to get the latest fashion trend in
wedding dresses and other wears that is used at the occasion.
Every lady has style and has dreams of how
she wants her wedding day to be, and how she wants her wedding gown to be like.
I have attended weddings and I have seen different styles of wedding dresses,
from simple styles to complex styles. But the one that shock me most, is the
different crazy styles I see people wear, just to look different in their day.
I see ladies wear gowns that expose the whole breast, while some wear gowns
that have been slit straight up to the waist and different other styles. And it makes
me wonder if it is the ladies getting married or their naked bodies.
I was one of the bridal trains in a
friend's wedding and I witnessed how the bride was adorned with different
ornaments after her white strapless simple flowing gown had been worn with a
jacket to go with it which she intended to remove during the time of reception.
She looked like an angel without wings as she walked down the aisle; She looked
so gorgeous. I wished I was the bride. After the wedding, a lot people kept
wishing they got married that day.
The styles of wedding dresses do not
matter because the bride has the right to choose the
style she wants but that white beautiful gown adorned with a
lovely veil to cover her face which signifies chastity, is a dress shown to the
whole world how descent she is. Going into the presence of God to wed requires
respect from us most especially through the dress we wear. I noticed from
discussions with people that the type of wedding dress worn in a wedding is one
of the key factors they used to judge the success of a wedding and also how
well the marriage would go. A wedding dress is a special dress, it is not a dress
worn all the time. it is a dress people always look forward to see. So the
first and last times you intend to wear it always leave a lasting impression on
the minds of those that see it. In the light of this, wearing the right wedding
dress that will bring honor to God would be the best.
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I reserve my comment for my beautiful wife :)
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